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A Tender AgeBook

by Chang-rae Lee

Who uses, recommends or left A Tender Age, in their own words: each a verbatim quote with a link to where it was said.

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Gary Shteyngart
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Uh, A Tender Age I think is the name of the book. There was an excerpt in The New Yorker. This I think is his most, um, memoiristic novel. I think a lot of his own background goes into this. He meant so much to me both as a teacher and as a friend and as a sensualist. He is as sensual as one gets living in Northern California. He's incredible.

Answering The Ezra Klein Show's closing question, three books to recommend, in “I Keep Telling People We’re Living in This Dystopian Novel” (https://www.nytimes.com/2026/06/19/opinion/ezra-klein-podcast-gary-shteyngart.html). Quoted from the episode's YouTube auto-captions.

2026-06-19·youtube.com ↗

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