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Disarming the NarcissistBook

by Wendy Behary, 2021

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Psychotherapist specializing in narcissism and high-conflict couples, founder and director of The Cognitive Therapy Center of New Jersey and the Schema Therapy Institutes of NJ-NYC and DC.
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Now a self-help classic, Disarming the Narcissist is a practical, step-by-step communication guide to help you cope with and confront the narcissist in your life.

The home page of her own book site, describing the third edition; page datePublished 2021-09-10 in its schema.org metadata.

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