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Mistakes Were Made (But Not by Me)Book

by Carol Tavris and Elliot Aronson

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Experimentation expert who led A/B testing at Airbnb, Microsoft and Amazon; co-author of Trustworthy Online Controlled Experiments.
loved

which I love sort of on the verge of psychology it's called mistakes were made but not by me

Lenny's Podcast, "The ultimate guide to A/B testing", lightning round, asked for the books they recommend most; the guest's own spoken answer (YouTube captions).

2023-07-27·youtube.com ↗

Organizational psychologist and professor at the Wharton School; author of Give and Take, Originals, Think Again and Hidden Potential, and host of the Re:Thinking podcast.
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Mistakes Were Made (But Not by Me) is a favorite. I’m sure you know that, by Tavris and Aronson, a great book on why our egos get in the way of just about everything and how to overcome that.

The Tim Ferriss Show #399, "Adam Grant — The Man Who Does Everything"; asked which books they have gifted most. The guest's own words in the transcript Tim Ferriss published on tim.blog.

2019-12-20·tim.blog ↗

Physician focused on longevity; wrote Outlive and hosts The Drive
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It was Mistakes Were Made (But Not By Me). Which is just an amazing book on the psychology of cognitive dissonance.

The Tim Ferriss Show #352, "Dr. Peter Attia vs. Tim Ferriss"; recalling their earlier answer on the book they have gifted most. The guest's own words in the transcript Tim Ferriss published on tim.blog.

2018-12-20·tim.blog ↗

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