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Selfish Reasons to Have More KidsBook

by Bryan Caplan

Who uses, recommends or left Selfish Reasons to Have More Kids, in their own words: each a verbatim quote with a link to where it was said.

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Writer of the Don't Worry About the Vase blog, covering AI, rationality and decision-making; former professional Magic: The Gathering player and trader.
loved

I found The Case Against Education and Selfish Reasons To Have More Kids both extremely valuable.

A post going through the blogs and newsletters he recommends and why, written after declining offers of reciprocal recommendations.

2025-06-30·thezvi.substack.com ↗

Social psychologist at UC Riverside who studies happiness; author of The How of Happiness.
loved

I swear I did not read this to convince myself to have 4 kids. Read it because it was relevant to my research and loved it.

Her Psychology Today post listing the best books she read in 2014, with a line on each

2014-12-30·psychologytoday.com ↗

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