Professor of psychology at the University of Toronto and emeritus professor at Yale; author of books on morality, pleasure and empathy, and writer of the Small Potatoes newsletter.
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This is a fascinating book on a fascinating topic—how we choose (and how we should choose) whether or not to make radical life changes, such as becoming a parent.
His list of terrific psychology books written by non-psychologists, most of them about decision making. In the same paragraph he discloses a conflict: the author is a close friend of his.
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