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Writer of the newsletter bookbear express, on relationships, taste and self-knowledge; based in San Francisco.
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Oura ringHardware Oura
My Oura ring. I hesitated for a long time but it sparks joy. I think Apple Watches are ugly and I didn't like the Whoop nearly as much. I love checking the app every day.
Her 2025 bookbear express gift guide; only the 'AVA' section is her own words (the rest are guest contributors).
2025-12-09·avabear.xyz ↗
Dyson vacuumHardware Dyson
Dyson vacuum. The laser light thing makes me happy. I never vacuumed before I got this, which meant my apartment was constantly in dire straits since I am the proud owner of two extremely fluffy dogs. I love it.
Her 2025 bookbear express gift guide; only the 'AVA' section is her own words (the rest are guest contributors).
2025-12-09·avabear.xyz ↗
Comme Si workout socksOther Comme Si
Comme Si workout socks. These come in amazing colors and are too cute to really work out in but I love them.
Her 2025 bookbear express gift guide; only the 'AVA' section is her own words (the rest are guest contributors).
2025-12-09·avabear.xyz ↗
NARS soft matte concealerOther NARS
NARS soft matte concealer. This is the BEST concealer. I've used this for many years and I will never quit it. There is no comparable one for acne.
Her 2025 bookbear express gift guide; only the 'AVA' section is her own words (the rest are guest contributors).
2025-12-09·avabear.xyz ↗
Nippon Kodo Mori-no-KOH incenseOther Nippon Kodo
Nippon Kodo Mori-no-KOH incense. I love this! Incredible bang for your buck, the little box feels so fancy, it smells insane. I'm burning it right now as I write.
Her 2025 bookbear express gift guide; only the 'AVA' section is her own words (the rest are guest contributors).
2025-12-09·avabear.xyz ↗
Clarins lip comfort oilOther Clarins
Clarins lip comfort oil. Maybe my favorite lip tint, and I own like 35.
Her 2025 bookbear express gift guide; only the 'AVA' section is her own words (the rest are guest contributors).
2025-12-09·avabear.xyz ↗
Brandy Melville underwear and sweatersOther Brandy Melville
Brandy Melville underwear and sweaters. 100% cotton and I can't believe how good they are for how cheap they are. I've owned a couple of their sweaters for like eight years and they really hold up.
Her 2025 bookbear express gift guide; only the 'AVA' section is her own words (the rest are guest contributors).
2025-12-09·avabear.xyz ↗
DedCool Milk detergentOther DedCool
DedCool Milk detergent. Yes, it's probably all over your Instagram ads. Yes, it is good! This scent is what originally kicked off my lactonic fixation.
Her 2025 bookbear express gift guide; only the 'AVA' section is her own words (the rest are guest contributors).
2025-12-09·avabear.xyz ↗
Olaplex conditionerOther Olaplex
Olaplex conditioner. I have the shampoo too but I'm pretty sure the conditioner is what makes my hair bizarrely soft.
Her 2025 bookbear express gift guide; only the 'AVA' section is her own words (the rest are guest contributors).
2025-12-09·avabear.xyz ↗
COLOR WOW Raise the Root sprayOther COLOR WOW
COLOR WOW Raise the Root spray. I found out about this on TikTok. I spray when damp and it DOES give my flat Asian hair volume. I don't know how it works, but it does.
Her 2025 bookbear express gift guide; only the 'AVA' section is her own words (the rest are guest contributors).
2025-12-09·avabear.xyz ↗
PanOxyl pimple patchesOther PanOxyl
PanOxyl pimple patches. These are not as fun as Starface/my cute anime character patches but ridiculously better than any other ones on the market.
Her 2025 bookbear express gift guide; only the 'AVA' section is her own words (the rest are guest contributors).
2025-12-09·avabear.xyz ↗
Uniqlo v-neck cashmere sweaterOther Uniqlo
Uniqlo v-neck cashmere sweater. It is very, very, very important to own at least one of these. I suggest the black one in one size larger than your normal size.
Her 2025 bookbear express gift guide; only the 'AVA' section is her own words (the rest are guest contributors).
2025-12-09·avabear.xyz ↗
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